IS IT TIME TO REINVENT YOURSELF?
Reinventing yourself is not a standard process. It is important to view your own reinvention as a journey of self-discovery. It is a case of finding your “why.” It is letting go of your past and moving forward to your future.
From a new haircut, new way of doing make-up, going to see a play, movie or just out to eat alone. I have been taking baby steps that take me out of my comfort zone. This did not happen until I felt comfortable within myself. Losing 100 lbs did that for me. I always had Steve with me before. Now, for things we did together, I am finding ways to still do; even if alone sometimes. And for now, it is ok to take baby steps. I would love to have gone to some recent concerts but they are at 8-10ish. I don't quite feel safe out alone walking to my car alone. Maybe I will get there? Baby steps for now. The Grizzlies are also on TV. So, I can watch them at least. Matinees are how I get around the movies and plays. Along with going out with a friend. But for night events, most all women I know feel the same as I do.
Self-reflection is an inseparable part of reinvention. Through self-care, journaling, and meditation with mindful breathing you can gain a better understanding of yourself. Self-reflection also helps in emotional intelligence. It is important to always be honest with yourself. That can be challenging. Ask for support if you need it. Believe me, it takes a whole community to grow and to reinvent yourself. Surround yourself with the right people. People who can bring you up and not pull you down. Celebrate all successes - big or small. This helps boost confidence and self-worth. It encourages constant learning and teaches us to always continue to explore new parts of ourselves.
Making small changes to reinvent ourselves is putting it all in perspective. Those small changes can make a big difference. This is for real and no pretending allowed. Start slowly with reimagining our lives and finding the joy in small steps. Turn around the everyday stuff that we all must do by making them exciting.
Go ahead and make your life a fairy tale by reinventing yourself.
