THE WORLD OF BEING SINGLE!

 THE WORLD OF BEING SINGLE

However your circumstances of being in the land of singledom happened, there are some benefits of it. I am writing this blog as someone who has recently come to this conclusion. Becoming single was not supposed to be in the cards for me just yet. It was not until I lost my husband, my soulmate, and the once-in-a-lifetime love of my life that I was brought into this world. 

There are other ways such as a divorce or simply not meeting THE person that you want to spend the rest of your life with. I am not here to debate the causes - just to talk about the benefits. The reason for me to write about it is that I am finally coming to terms with my singledom and it is not such a bad deal since I can never have my life back the way it was before. It is a new day for me. And...this took a couple of years for me to come to terms with. 

Some of these benefits don't exactly fit me but nonetheless - they are benefits.

• Spontaneity is a perfect example- there is no one else to consider when you want to change your plans at the drop of a hat. It is less stressful and more calm.

• Choosing where you want to go on your trips - maybe the trip of your dreams, how long to stay, no compromising; even to restaurants, movies, plays, concerts, etc.

• Doing what you want with your friends and family. Cultivating those relationships. Never dealing with in-laws. Sometimes this can be no problem ever. (as in my case - I had the perfect mother-in-law) Then other times I hear the tales from others...😱

• Take up and use the whole bed all to yourself. Also, enjoy being as comfy as you want when you want.

• Work on self-care and becoming your authentic self. Enjoy the solitude to recharge and just enjoy life. You are in charge of setting your own boundaries and where you are headed in your own personal growth.

Singledom does not mean that it is meant for you to do all alone. It is fine to go out alone but it also is fun to have someone to just go out and have a coffee, a meal, or watch a movie with. In singledom - you have this choice! How wonderful that can be! Relationships are not just one on one. There are many more and all kinds to enjoy.

There is one important thing to remember:

You will always be there for YOU!

😊